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第38章 意志力为你导航 (8)

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短语应用

1. ...you will have an opportunity to deal with them out in the world.

deal with:涉及;处理;做生意

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2. You will also draw to your teachers to teach you that lesson until you get it right.

draw to:向……移动;逼近

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至少我还活着

I’m Having a Day

佚名 / Anonymous

A dear friend of mine lost her husband in an accident. Her husband’s passing was sudden and unexpected. It happened out of the blue. The tragedy was a shock to everyone. They were such a happy and lucky couple.

For me, it drove home the realization that you just don’t know when a loved one will leave you.

We sometimes take our loved ones for granted. We expect that they’ll be with us forever.

However, life doesn’t work that way. Sometimes we get a wake up call that shocks us. A wake up call like that makes us realize how short life is.

In consoling her, I tried to imagine how I would feel if I was in her shoes. How would I feel if I had just lost my husband? It was impossible to imagine what she was going through. I didn’t know what words to say to help her feel better.

Sometimes words just cannot express our feelings. Sometimes our actions are much more meaningful than words. A hug can sometimes express more. Sometimes, even just being there to listen can be more meaningful.

I didn’t know what to say to her so I didn’t say anything. I just let her cry and held her. I made sure she had something to eat and I listened when she talked.

As I was leaving the funeral parlor, I ran into Marilyn. Marilyn has been a true friend to me over the years. She is one of those friends who is with you in the good times and is always by your side in the bad times. She has a sense of humor that makes everyone laugh and she makes everyone feel at ease. We chitchatted for a few moments.

She asked me how my job was. I started talking on and on. I told her about how I was having a stressful week with my job.

I complained to her about all the issues at work. She listened to me as I ranted and raved about my frustrations. I went on and on about how hard my week had been.

“Oh,” I said, “And don’t even get me started about what happened yesterday. Let me just tell you that I had an awful day.” She gave me a look that made me stop talking. Marilyn took my face gently in her hands and kissed my forehead. Tenderly, and with love, she said, “But at least you had a day.”

I was floored. The touch of her hands on my cheeks, the calmness in her voice, and the words she spoke hit me like a tonne of bricks.

All the frustration and stress that had been building up inside of me came to a complete stop. She was right. I might have had a bad day but at least I’d had one. My dear friend in the other room would have given anything to have one more day with her husband.

Since then, when I start feeling stressed, I remind myself of Marilyn’s words. At least I’m having a day! Things can always be a lot worse. The stress of the situation can always be worse. It doesn’t matter.

All that matters is that I am alive. I have a lot to be thankful for so I shall not waste my days with stress and frustrations any more. Life is too short!

在一场意外事故中,我一个好朋友的丈夫去世了。悲剧来得这样突然,让大家惊愕不已。他们曾是多么快乐幸福的一对啊!

对我来说,我更加深刻地意识到:你永远不能知晓你挚爱的人何时会离你而去。

有时,我们视所爱的人为理所当然,期待永远有他们相伴。

然而,生命不以我们的意志行事。有时,我们从震惊中清醒,像这样的清醒使我们意识到生命的短暂。

在安慰她的同时,我试着去想象:如果换做是我,我会怎样?如果失去了我的丈夫,我是什么感觉?她正在经受的苦痛,是不可想象的。我不知道说些什么能使她稍感宽慰。

有时,言语无以表达我们的情感;有时,行动的意义胜过千言万语;有时,一个拥抱反而会表达很多;有时,即使只是在这里倾听,也会更有意义。

因为不知道能对她说些什么,所以我什么也没说。我只是抱着她,任她哭泣。我除了劝她吃些东西,只能在她诉说的时候倾听了。

离开殡仪馆时,我遇到了玛丽莲。多年来,她一直是我真正的朋友。她是朋友中能与我同甘共苦的人。她具有使每个人欢笑的幽默感,会让跟她在一起的人感到很自在。我们聊了一会儿。

她问了我的工作情况,我开始说个不停。我告诉她,这周的工作压力有多大,并向她抱怨着工作上遇到的各种问题。

在我为挫折愤慨时,她一直聆听着。我不断地抱怨着上个星期的日子有多难。

“哦,对了,”我说,“更别提昨天发生的事了。我只能对你说,我度过了可怕的一天。”玛丽莲看了我一眼,我顿时哑然。她用手轻轻拍了拍我的脸,然后亲了一下我的额头。她温柔地、充满关爱地说:“但是,至少你活过了一天。”

我被击垮了。她的双手在我的脸颊上的触摸,她言语中的平静,还有她所说的字句,像一块砖头敲击在我的心头。

所有堆积在我心里的挫折和压力顿时消失得无影无踪。她是对的,或许我的一天是糟糕的,但是至少我拥有这一天。在另一间屋子里,我亲爱的朋友,她愿意付出一切代价,来换取与丈夫多待一天。

从那以后,当我开始觉得有压力时,就会用玛丽莲的话提醒自己。至少我活过了一天!事情可能变得更糟糕,压力也可能会更严重,但是,这都无关紧要。重要的是,我还活着!

我有很多值得感谢的东西,所以,我不该再将时间浪费在感受压力和挫折上。生命太短暂了!

心灵小语

每个人只有一次生命,而人生又是如此短暂。不要让挫折和压力掌控你的生活,珍惜生命中的每一份真诚的情感,珍惜生活中每一个美好的瞬间,不要在失去后才懂得那些日子原来是这样珍贵。

记忆填空

1. In consoling her, I tried to imagine__ I would feel if I was in her shoes. How would I feel if I had just__ my husband? It was impossible to imagine what she was going through. I didn’t know what__ to say to help her feel__.

2. I complained to her about all the issues at__. She__ to me as I ranted and raved about my frustrations. I went on and on about how__ my week had been.

3. All the frustration and stress that had been building up__ of me came to a complete stop. She was . I might have had a__ day but at least I’d had one.

佳句翻译

1. 你永远不能知晓你挚爱的人何时会离你而去。

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2. 我有很多值得感谢的东西,所以,我不该再将时间浪费在感受压力和挫折上。

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3. 生命太短暂了。

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短语应用

1. We sometimes take our loved ones for granted.

take for granted:认为……理所当然;(因视作当然而)对……不予以重视

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2. I started talking on and on. I told her about how I was having a stressful week with my job.

talk on:继续谈;(系统地)谈

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有效利用时间

Importance of Time

佚名 / Anonymous

They say Life and Death are not in anyone’s hands.They are things that just happen every time and with everyone. Same is the case with time. Most of the times we take it for granted that there is always plenty of time. Due to this perhaps we indulge in various activities, which are a wholesale waste of time.

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